I've been with my lady for a few years now. We met at LQ in NYC, where I use to bounce. I year later we moved to Atlanta where I opened my own security company. Things were great! I've even expanded my biz back home in NYC. On my last NY trip a few months ago, I met someone. Someone who is the opposite of my lady, but just as wonderful. My lady's supportive and all, but lately it's been feeling more like an arrangement than a relationship. As for the other woman, we kept in contact and every time I'm in NY, we spend more time together. Can't really explain it but it feels like I've known her forever, we vibe like homies but our chemistry is craaazy! I can't stop wanting her, wanting to be with her and I don't want to. Thing is my lady left her job, her home and everyone she knows to head with me to ATL. She motivated me to start my biz, she was my rock! So how could I ever walk away from her, when she gave up so much for me and has been so great? I love her and probably always will, but I'm not in love with her anymore and this other woman is tuggin' at my heart. She could be the one. What should I do? I don't want to hurt my lady. If you were my lady, how would you want me to handle this?
Loving someone and being in love with someone are two very different things. You've vested a lot into this relationship and she was there with you every step of the way. At the time I'm sure you both believed she was the one. She had choices to make and she made them. Now you owe it to her to do the same. Your choices have changed along with your feelings, therefore...you owe it to her to let her know, so she can begin to revise the choices she's made for and with you. Worst part is you've already gotten involved with someone else. Do you really need me to tell you what you should do next? Your relationship with your lady as you knew it, is a wrap! If you truly want her to be happy, you'd let her know ,then let her go. There's nothing easy and painless about it....but the longer you put it off, the more it will hurt her. If it were me, I'd want to know. Would I want to wring your neck and break you car windows? Hell yes!....but I'd still want the bad truth over a good lie, any day. Ultimately, I'd never want to remain with a man who is no longer in love with me and has clearly already moved on. In your truth, try to spare her your discretions regarding the other woman. It doesn't matter at this point....the bottom line is, you no longer want to be in this relationship and that's what she needs to know. You know what you gotta do.
My girl doesn't shave her under arms as often as she should. She lets it get a bushy before she cuts it. It's very embarrassing because no matter how nice she looks, when she throws her arm up, it ruins everything. I've asked her about it before, but she brushed it off. How can I get her to cut this nasty shit out?
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I've been with my lady for a few years now. We met at LQ in NYC, where I use to
ReplyDeletebounce. I year later we moved to Atlanta where I opened my own security
company. Things were great! I've even expanded my biz back home in NYC. On
my last NY trip a few months ago, I met someone. Someone who is the opposite of
my lady, but just as wonderful. My lady's supportive and all, but lately it's
been feeling more like an arrangement than a relationship. As for the other
woman, we kept in contact and every time I'm in NY, we spend more time together.
Can't really explain it but it feels like I've known her forever, we vibe like
homies but our chemistry is craaazy! I can't stop wanting her, wanting to be
with her and I don't want to. Thing is my lady left her job, her home and
everyone she knows to head with me to ATL. She motivated me to start my biz,
she was my rock! So how could I ever walk away from her, when she gave up so
much for me and has been so great? I love her and probably always will, but I'm not in love with her anymore and this
other woman is tuggin' at my heart. She could be the one. What should I do? I don't want to hurt my lady. If you were my lady, how would you want me to handle this?
@Mr. Wright:
ReplyDeleteLoving someone and being in love with someone are two very different things. You've vested a lot into this relationship and she was there with you every step of the way. At the time I'm sure you both believed she was the one. She had choices to make and she made them. Now you owe it to her to do the same. Your choices have changed along with your feelings, therefore...you owe it to her to let her know, so she can begin to revise the choices she's made for and with you. Worst part is you've already gotten involved with someone else. Do you really need me to tell you what you should do next? Your relationship with your lady as you knew it, is a wrap! If you truly want her to be happy, you'd let her know ,then let her go. There's nothing easy and painless about it....but the longer you put it off, the more it will hurt her. If it were me, I'd want to know. Would I want to wring your neck and break you car windows? Hell yes!....but I'd still want the bad truth over a good lie, any day. Ultimately, I'd never want to remain with a man who is no longer in love with me and has clearly already moved on. In your truth, try to spare her your discretions regarding the other woman. It doesn't matter at this point....the bottom line is, you no longer want to be in this relationship and that's what she needs to know. You know what you gotta do.
My girl doesn't shave her under arms as often as she should. She lets it get a bushy before she cuts it. It's very embarrassing because no matter how nice she looks, when she throws her arm up, it ruins everything. I've asked her about it before, but she brushed it off. How can I get her to cut this nasty shit out?
ReplyDelete@ Anonymous: Tell her, it's nasty bad hygiene and it turns you off. That should be enough. If she still doesn't care, leave her nasy a**.
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